V-backed, slipping off a white shoulder
showing the long groove of my spine,
always adjusting it, too hot, too cold;
That Sixties shape in heavy lace –
he kissed me on the doorstep,
but I didn’t let him in –
I left him standing there.
It was my right.
A cobweb back – Morticia –
vampire – lamia – velvet –
all those dark-eyed
seducing women –
I swayed, half-dazed,
half-dancing, black widow
in my spider dress;
Glazed cotton, lacing up the front –
purple ribbon, leather thong,
punk Cinders in the ashes;
My mini-crini – wobbled as I walked
Audrey-Hepburn-ed me,
made me a chess queen,
something strange
and somehow silly
and yet beautiful;
Tight, scoop-neck, lace sleeves –
“well done” he said
and me wiggling, wriggling,
lipstick smeared;
The one I bought to hide
my steroid belly and my lack
of cleavage, wore it with that hat –
hated it by the end,
and burned it. Only good for that;
The Christmas party stand-by –
glitzed up with gold,
the one that never creases,
old reliable. Always looks great.
You need a dress like that;
the funeral one, worn with
a black bolero, jet-beaded,
standing in the rain
and weeping, yoked by the family;
the gently flowing one
with folksy flowers,
forgiving.
We all need forgiveness.
And a perfect dress.
Anmol is hosting at dVerse tonight and asks us to think about shades of black. There haven’t been many constants in my wardrobe, but a little black dress is one of them.
“We all need forgiveness.
And a perfect dress.”
Brilliant.
I love this prompt.
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This was really captivating Sarah. A perspective of life I have never had the ability to see. This was great, I loved it! Full of wonderful imagery, shared graciously by you. Thank you. I never had a perfect dress, though I have certainly required my share of forgiveness, and was fortunate enough to be granted much of it.
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I loved all the ways you presented your dresses Sarah, and of course the memories attached to them forever.
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This is one of your best–I loved it. We men are not privy to the relationship women can b\ave with clothes. I liked the lines /he kissed me on the doorstep, but I didn’t let him in/.
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Nice alliteration: “folksy flowers,
forgiving.”
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I loved this. Original and pulls us through to the end.
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I’m not really one for dressing up, but I do love black dresses, Sarah. I love the way you link life events and dresses in this poem, and the way you remember the feel of the spider dress. I identify with the always adjusting and the too hot, too cold. I especially love ‘punk Cinders in the ashes’ and ‘mini-crini’ – I always wanted a dress like that. As I said before, if I’d been born several decades later, I’d have been a Goth.
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This was partly inspired by my daughter heading off to a party in her first LBD – pretty much what I would have worn at her age. It made me think about all the black dresses I have owned – and I still have quite a few of them, because they haven’t aged, even though I have…
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We all need a perfect dress indeed and more often than not, the black ones seem to last the longest. I love how these descriptive dresses reveal a lifetime, with their different moods and occasions. This is my favourite image because it is so carefree: “I swayed, half-dazed,/half-dancing, black widow/in my spider dress”.
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Thank you. This was a great prompt – there have been such a wide range of responses.
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The personality of our clothing does change our way of being in the world. The perfect dress! still searching…(K)
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I love the focus on the dress and how each fits a purpose… but somehow there is always one “little black” fitting all occasion (at least I always thought so)
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Now I understand the omni evanescence of the little black dress, the high mass of the chess queen for one black night. So well done.
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What a creative wardrobe journey you shared with us! Beautifully written. A perusal of my own closet tells no stories, I think!!
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Late late to the reading; apologies for that! BUT oh so glad I read this poem of yours. It is truly amazing. I’m reading along, about each dress . . . and smiling…the mention of Audrey Hepburn, the lack of cleavage, all of it here…and then wham! This stanza:
“the funeral one, worn with
a black bolero, jet-beaded,
standing in the rain
and weeping, yoked by the family;”
WOW! Weeping, yoked by the family….such a powerful powerful stanza and ending. The tone shifts remarkably. So very very well done!
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PS: and I forgot to mention….we’ve all hear the maxim that we must have at least “one little perfect black dress” —- and then you mention the spider!
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Oh, thank you, Lillian. Black is such a powerful signifier of glamour and of grief.
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